Open Question: My Marriage life – Not happy?
am an asian man who got married to an australian asian woman a year back. am 27 and she is 37 and she also has a kid 9yrs from previous marriage. the problem is that we where never been living happily so long. this is my first marriage and it suck heaps. conflicts, arguments and fights are everydays issue. am new to australia and i have no idea how to live and survive here. i struggle for my everyday job as a waiter in a restaurant and get 300$ a week. i will have to pay my share 150$ a week for home rent(total 300$). i got laid off and had no job for nearly 4months. she earns 700$a week. the problem i face is,
1) i would be constantly discouraged by her for my inability to earn a lot.
2) she earns and she stands tall. most occasions i keep my ass shut to avoid arguments.
3) i dont have freedom to do most of the things in my life. cant have a beer even a week, cannot have friends coming home, treated like a child equivalent to that kid. despite me telling her am not your child am ya husband.
4) get thretened to go back to asia if i stand up and talk for me.
5) constant winge about things that it my fault and i am a looser.
6) once i was talking to my american friend over fone, she suspect that she is my affair and punched my very bad and say "fuck off" to US.
7) calling me ugly words as if its nothing, like "mother-fucker" "bastard" 
it will be worse if she has her period, oh god i can't explain how bad it went one-day. she threw all my cloths outside our bedroom. now i sleep in a spare room like a junk.
9) i always thought asian woman have self control and well matured but jus a flip-side.
10) my visa is still on process, havent got my temporary resident yet. she keeps threatening me that she can send me back to third-world into slums.
11) she has done the same to her other marriage partner, she blames it on him. i dont know how far its true. he is a chinese man, calls her mobile some time to talk to his son. she ill treats him too.
12) i don know what to do at this moment. i spoke to some asian ladies in town about this and they seems to be nice and disappointed with her behavior. i introduced a Philippines woman who was my co-worker but she put an attitude and wouldn't mingle. apparently she has no close friends, some friends here and there but they dont know anything about her. she doesnt keep any contact with anyone,only if need help.
i know there is a lot of complaints about my dear wife but its jus not easy living like that. its so depressing for me and her too. she has to sides, she cries or she behaves like a baby. nothing normal in her behavior.
NOW pls tell me what to do. i can think for myself friends. am feeling so low and so let down. i am calm and patient, there would be some hurricane now and then when i burst out after all my patients.